How do I show him my 'can't be arssed' attitude without coming across as rude? That's my biggest issue.
Hmmm, well I think, but I'm not, that it involves GAL. I think, but I'm not sure, that at the beginning you may have to fake it, but as your GAL evolve, it will be natural and you really will have a "can't be arssed" attitude that's low key, matter of fact and authentic.
I think coming at it from a place of loving kindness is the way to go. Look up the loving kindness meditation. It's brought me a lot of peace. Hope it does the same for you! It's on the excel at life site.
Overall dolly, I agree with Roist - don't expect or want him to help.
Much love to you, as always! xoxoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
