Thanks for your insight 25. I can understand your point. To defend (heh) myself a bit - of course I know it does not apply or is appropriate in all the places. And it's not like I did it always - nor for "possession" purposes.
But definitely something that needs to be discussed with my next partner. As you said, it feels obvious but it isn't. But I'd really like to hold hands and it's really adorable when you see older couples walking around holding each other's hands. I want that kind of a relationship - long term where affection is still shown, publicly.
It is snowing now. The first snow for this year. Beautiful. The ground is too warm still so the snow just melts immediately. Last year this time I was writing my thesis and waiting for my son to born. A lot can happen in one year. Lives turn around; new lives start and old ones end. 2018 is going to be my year. A year ago I said that 2017 is going to be OUR year. Plans do not always work.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship
