the public displays of affection are things to discuss with your future partners.
And it's not appropriate in all places - I see holding hands as a beautiful symbol of affection and bonding, whereas being grabbed for a kiss can come off as "love bombing" which CAN feel more like a public act of demonstration (to reflect on the man)
or possession. Suddenness is usually off very putting, too. Communicate in the moment.
Just saying, think out the "why's" of it from your end and talk it out without defensiveness. Hear her answer.
Don't assume all places or all acts, apply. Seems obvious, but really it isn't.
Definitely requires discussion and not a hard/fast rule.
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