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The thing is I do not want to snoop anymore, if there is an affair then it will show up and i will be able to put the pieces together. BTW i am really understand that there is prob an AP and it just may be a group of young people from her job.

W does not want to move out and I offered to pay for an appartment, at first she want a D now its been put on hold, not sure why. I asked her to file and she has not. This is a confusing time for her as she doesnt want to be married but cant file yet. So then I have believe I am set up as plan B. Well thats not going to happen.

As far as when I find out if there is AP I am well prepared and I will not tolerate it. The strength I have is from reading so many sitches on the board and watching some guys just act like they arent men. Caving in to every demand their WW give them.

IC said that I need to give W more time to sort through her issues, so I am going to give more time. If she begins to act nasty and mean I will set boundries.

I already pay for everything so its not a financial sitch.

So one question, in house S do I not talk to her at all? Hello GB? she is not feeling well today, offer to help? I am really at the point of not wanting to but also want to do the right thing.

AnotherStander if you are reading this please any advise would be appreciated.