Thanks for your perspective Sotto.

It is definitely a deeply personal decision for everyone and as you mentioned, there are many reasons why people file.

I am nowhere near in my sitch to file - I can't do it until 12 months of separation have passed and I am in like month 4 of the separation and about 5 months post BD. Also, not in a place where it is a question that I can answer. I am just interested in knowing why people are standing for their MR and why people file. Just getting perspective and insight.


No one is coming to save you!