Oh yeah, life goes on...

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My XH A and M to oW lasted 10 years, its ended 2 months ago

The last VM I heard him say in desperation he needed help and he told one of his old friends , he needs out of new M

Your XH new R sounds like a disaster waiting to happen and it won't last
some women do only date M guys..There is a name for them..they hate men but are seductive
they ruin the guy--I read about this years ago
theres a book about it
My XH I believe had one of those

but like you said best to detach away from them
wish them well and go about your new life ..