I'm very familiar with NGS. I read the book about 2 months ago. I've been working on that side of myself very hard, by myself and with my IC. As you can see, I still have a ways to go.
I'm committed to avoiding this dynamic in my future relationships. If there's any silver lining to this sitch, it's learning this about myself.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18