Sotto,

Thanks. I have explored NGS but that wasn’t my main issue in the m. I was more the work and kids focused H. W was a SAHM who felt she was trapped in that role and that I didn’t pay enough attention to her, that our R wasn’t a high enough priority. The original guidance was to listen and pay attention to her and build an emotional connection, to be her best friend. That was what I was doing for the past year until recently when OM2 came into the picture.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving