These days there are many ways for a person to cheat without leaving a trace. Hope for the best but assume the worst.
In my case OM1 was a fantasy but OM2 is a full on PA. I followed the rules and did not snoop but MLC w just came out and told me.
Whether or not you push the D is a very personal decision.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
