waw maybe

[Matrix]

Some things she has said to me:
I do Not want to hurt you
ILYBNILWY
We have grown so far apart
Why would you want to be with me if I dont want to be with you
You arent even giving me a chance to miss you

All of the above lines are a direct quote from the WW script. I am not saying that there is an AP, but every one of those lines has been said by every WW I have read about on this site.

I think if it is a deal breaker for you, then you need to find out. If she will not tell you, then you need to find another way. I know that snooping is not advocated on this forum, but I think that is in cases where the LBS wants to save the M, even if there is a PA. In your case, you say it's a deal breaker, so you need to find out so that you can move on.

You also need to prepare yourself that if you do find out, there are going to be crazy things that go on in your head. Many of us say that it would be a deal breaker for us, until we find out and then the crazy takes over and we will do anything to save our M. It's a chemical process that happens in the brain and our core, manly, caveman instincts take over and we want our W's back more than we could have ever imagined. I am not saying that this will happen to you, but you need to prepare yourself.