1. Re your q re why he is doing this or that. The answer is no one knows, including him. Try to stop mind reading as it just mentally and emotionally exhausts you. I learned this the hard way.
2. Re you being confused. Absolutely. It is confusing. It makes no sense. And if you are confused, you can bet that he is even more so. My w has flip flopped for over a year.
Post more and ask more questions. Read the books. Call and d b coach. Take care of yourself.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving