Thank you both for the input. I am going to remain NC/Dark and just continue on.

Sandi, I was re-reading your WW threads for the second time...great, just great stuff. One Q I had was you stated

Quote:

Honestly, it is not about the length of time they last (unless the H is just trying to out wait the affair) but what the H does during and immediately following her A.


Again, me and my W (WW) are living apart; and if you see on my previous page; she texted me "Mr. X is no longer a part of my life"... However, I still see W is following this person on some social media stuff.

Is your opinion the same as East and Joe? Just wait to see if see actual is truthful about this and wants to put 100% effort in the M, and apologize for everything...I am asking because of the quote above from your (Sandi's Reflection thread).


M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
NoKids
Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1