I don't think any MLCER goes on to be happy or have a better R.. MY XH is now D from OW I also got sort of an apology on a VM- they know or why bother apologizing
I think they are haunted and I think R are difficult general - over time after the fun wears off--they are hard add deceit, lies and drugs to the equation.they become impossible
Its just a matter of time for most of them and even if they do manage to stay together Im going to check what the percentage is of A that last lifelong-
Im sure some do manage to stay together as co- addicts--that is not a happy life just my 2 cents
Have a good weekend dance away!
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow