Incidents like this over lunch/dinner and the clothes shopping do really feel like he is replaying his childhood anxieties out in real time. We use the term MLC loosely around here but your H at times really does seem mentally ill at times. I don’t know how you handle it. You are a strong woman.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving