LOL....well she is a female I get what your saying, makes sense!
What up M......The way I view giving up might not be actually giving up vs standing for the MR. When I think of my kids, I know they would rather have their family back together in a loving, functional relationship. If they had a vote I know what their vote would be. So for me if I have to go through some pain to make their vote be heard then I will do it.
There is 1 person in the relationship already making a selfish decision.....there doesn't need to be 2.
I get what your saying, makes sense!