To be honest, I don't understand this 'giving up' thing that the LBS's hang on to. I am asking sincerely, not trying to be rude.

How is it that you gave up when the other person just destroyed it all in one go? You can't do $hit if the other person has no desire to work on the MR, no matter how many gold medals you get in DB olympics. So, why does filing for D 'giving up'. Wouldn't the kids learn when they're older that the WAS/WW is the one who gave up?

I am just struggling with this concept because it seems unfair to the LBS - as if all the burden is on us to figure out a way.


No one is coming to save you!