I agree. He waited until I told him that she secured her apartment to reveal his thoughts about her BPD. I've seen the list of traits and yes she has some of them but so do lots of people without a fully diagnosed case of BPD. I honestly think he's just trying to get me to let her go and is looking for ways to push me into moving on. He has said for some time now that I will be much happier without her. When I tell him that's not what I want, he says things like "doing what you want is what landed you here".
BD: 5/28/17 "We're like roommates, there is no passion anymore" Early October she is moving out so she can "think about what she really wants in life" 10/22/17 She's gone
