Does me not acting a certain way have an effect on her? When she see's me acting happy, not pursuing her, asking questions, calling her, etc. does that make her mad? Does that cause them to act mad, etc. to see if they get some sort of reaction out of us? I am not talking about reconciling and her wanting to come back but if they are not getting the positive affirmation from the LBS how that impacts them emotionally? If we do not feed their ego's by pining away for them how does that change the thought process?
Joseph,
The answer to all of your questions is you're not detached. When you're detached, those questions won't be meaningful. Use those brain cycles to work on yourself.
