So another day. H is not at work today. I left work yesterday and wished him a happy weekend and tossed over my shoulder cheerily, see you Monday. I came to work all happy. Then he decides to start me sending me texts about something that happened three years ago. I validated and did not engage. I am satisfied that i didn't lose my temper. I did tell him insulting me was not helping anything. And that i wouldn't stand to be insulted. The more I pull away the more he tries to pick a fight with me. To remind himself that he has reason to destroy our family. So I just emailed my best friend and said everything to her what I wanted to really say to him. And didn't say any of it to him. That seemed to get him angrier that I wasn't playing his game. But I felt way better about myself and I am much calmer. But boy does he have anger issues. He just bottles all that resentment up and then blasts me. Makes me glad right now he's not in my personal life
