I am still looking for advice for the upcoming events in my life. W sisters first child birth and her birthday.
I am not trying to sound like a jerk but why would you do anything? If you do, do it for yourself but have no expectations that it is going to bring your W back.
FWIW I did not invite my W to my birthday party in July and her brother got married and I never reached out to him.
IMO when you are S or going through a D those things are assumed.
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Also; during the upcoming weekend, if she contacts me in any way do I need to remain cool and only respond to her if she is willing to do my requirements (NC letter, transparency, etc.).
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I am just kind of curious as to why she texted me she is done with Mr. X; then now is remaining quite.
Maybe to see if you will immediately drop what you are doing and run back into her arms. It could be a test to see if she still has you on the hook.
I wouldn't do anything unless she tells you she wants to work on the MR.
