J9, I'm not initiating the talks. It's been probably 4 months since I've initiated one. She's the one who brings it up - it's something she keeps coming back to.

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.