East, I guess I don't get why the R talks are so bad. I'll admit I don't see the point in them. I am certainly not pursuing. But maybe a part of me is thinking it's my way of leaving a crack in the door.
H.....let me ask you this. When you initiate the talks do you walk away feeling good about yourself and do you ever get the response your looking for out of your W?
The reason I stopped bringing the talks up was because I felt like it put me in weak position. I never got what I was looking for and walked away feeling like crap. They also made me feel weak because I was continuing to engage with someone who has no desire to engage with me.
