Last week, she called him from another number to tell him she was pregnant. This has put our R in complete jeopardy and she has given him an ultimatum - if he doesn't not leave me, she will move back to the state she was originally living in and he will not be able to see the baby. He doesn't want to be a deadbeat dad and feels since our kids are "old enough" (they are 12 and 14), and I am a stable person - everything will be okay.
First, I'm very sorry you're having to deal with this news, especially when you just started piecing! My suggestion is sit down with your H and ask him how he pictures life looking with OW and this new kid. You want to get that out in the open ASAP. Right now you don't know what he has in mind, maybe he just wants to see the kid now and then or maybe he wants to have two different families. Wouldn't that be the ultimate cake-eating. I think you need to get it out in the open so you can decide how to address it.
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The details of the pregnancy seem fishy, but he is adamant she is pregnant and has not pushed her for more details, because he's scared she'll leave with the baby.
Fishy as in she may not be pregnant, or as in it may not be his?
