Maybe they did. But theres nothing to be done about her friends right now. We cant help you to change who your W is friends with or what they are telling her. So I suppose it's relevant, but only insofar as W is going to put herself into an echo chamber - anyone that disagrees with her current worldview is going to get cut out.
I hear you, and to be honest I have already come to the conclusion that dwelling on the part they played only frustrates me...gets me thinking about retaliating by blowing the lid on their A's which would only be a stupid move on my part asthe W would be even more pissed @ me, and I realize that if these woman were single it would only make it to were they would be able to hang out even more. I am also confident that its just a matter of time before their actions come back to bite them as it is already for the "sister", her and her new H are already on the rocks 2 weeks into their M, he is already sleeping in the camper!it isnt really any of my business or concern.
Fixed it for you!
Again - what are your goals? If your goal is to reconcile with your W, then I dont think exploding her friends' marriages is a good way to go about it.
