Unfortunately, I am back. H came home after about a month of being apart. He moved home because he wanted to work on our marriage. He saw me moving on and it freaked him out. He broke it off with OW and went NC. They were living together for 3 or so weeks.
Last week, she called him from another number to tell him she was pregnant. This has put our R in complete jeopardy and she has given him an ultimatum - if he doesn't not leave me, she will move back to the state she was originally living in and he will not be able to see the baby. He doesn't want to be a deadbeat dad and feels since our kids are "old enough" (they are 12 and 14), and I am a stable person - everything will be okay.
He has seen her a few times since she gave him this news. The details of the pregnancy seem fishy, but he is adamant she is pregnant and has not pushed her for more details, because he's scared she'll leave with the baby.
I am at my wit's end. I don't know what to do. I feel like I am pushing him away again with all the questions and conversations about this.
________________________ M: 35 H: 36 M: Together 16 years; M 6 S14, D12 BD: 8/11 H Moved Out: 8/13 PA confirmed: 9/2 H Back Home: 9/27 OW Says she's pregnant/R on hold: 10/12
