Ultimatum or not, you did push her hand toward divorce. What alternative did she have?
Yup, you're right, and I appreciate your insight. We are having lunch tomorrow, I plan to apologize sincerely, and hopefully something good will come out of it.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17