Then she told me she made an offer on the house she wants to buy, and she hoped the L's could sort out me signing the waiver to title, so she can close within 30 days. I was dumbfounded. (Dusty, watch out for this!) I had told her before that I wouldn't be signing it, and she went ahead and made an offer anyway, with a deposit I'm sure.
Thanks for the shout out!! lol for the record I kind of gave in today on this front, we had a status meeting at the court with the lawyers to discuss everything. She accepted my buyout offer for the equity on the home so I am moving forward on refi'ing the home and gave her permission to seek other residence on her own. She will not be using shared money for this and she will continue to pay half the current mortgage until divorce is final. Her lawyer advised her to not do this and only accept a cash settlement for the equity but STBXW's guilt told her lawyer to take the deal. I will win out financially as this is a huge asset for me and great for my kids!
