Why is she doing this? Why is she concerning about me? Is she picking the side? or she wants to keep both for now?
Yes she wants to keep both. We call it "cake-eating". She wants to have her cake and eat it too. Have her home family life and also have her exciting fling with OM.
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We all will go to Japan next week for a week. I don't want to ruin it. So, I will do what works for now. But after this trip...I don't know.
Understood. After the trip you should consider completely going dark on her. Tell her you know she's still in communication with OM and that is not acceptable to you and you do not want to have anything to do with her unless and until she ends it with OM. Then cut her out of your life as much as possible. It will be difficult, but it will be much better for you than living in limbo. And it may eventually save your M.
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Please give me strength to stay in this game. Sometime I wonder what the he** am I doing here? I am doing thing that most people don't. I feel like I could give up anytime.
Hang in there and keep posting! You are doing fine!
