WH came back. Piecing. Past the 2 year mark ...

[Coconut]

Blu, I was thinking about the loss of the "Innocence of Love" that I find myself feeling nowadays, and how you had mentioned something similar in the past. Decided to come on the board and get caught up in some sitch's and saw your last update.

I posted something similar in the past, but I was separated (Newly Separated) and the woman was newly married. I remember how fast and naturally it happened, nothing inappropriate happened, but it didn't take long before we started feeling in a way that would be inappropriate for a married Woman.

I think the only reason it stopped was because I was all to familiar with the destruction that it could cause, and I made a conscious effort to stop it, and it was oh so difficult to push her away. I sometimes wonder how that would have ended if I had met this woman before there was an A in my marriage.

I won't say what your doing makes you good or bad, I would only say that if you want to do it, don't hide it. Make that decision and let your H know if that's what you want. You get to decide what you want in life, I just hope you don't get yourself into an uncomfortable situation because you deferred making a choice.