I would take the kids out with you when you go, even if only for a walk/drive.
That's horrible behavior. I suspect if she is left alone with them after one of her tantrums (which these absolutely are)
she'll engage in more character assassination of you. Eff that.
Tate, it's an untenable situation and I would not bother about where the heck SHE sleeps.
Nor would I ever ask her to get in the same bed as you. She does not deserve that. After a hateful tantrum like she had i'd want her on the couch.
Get a TV in YOUR bedroom if she's sleeping on the couch
or use headphones for your computer and watch what you want or read or dance, if she's sleeping on the couch.
Don't worry about her sleeping patterns, just yours and the kids.
ugh
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