Originally Posted By: Joseph9
I thought it be would interesting to give you all some insight into the selfishness of my W.

She has our children this week and the company I work for bought a bunch of tickets to an amusement park. I can get them for free, including food vouchers so I know our girls would love to go.

So I sent my W an email this morning letting her know about them and since it is her week with them offering to get her tickets to take the girls.

Now, I am not a big amusement park person either but I am willing to go because I know my D's will love it.

So she responds back, with "Hi there, you know I am not a huge fan of the parks so you are welcome to have them".

I mean like really, it's not about you.

The good news is now I will have them and I will be taking them smile


hey, you know I'm on Team Joseph9.

And She is selfish, God knows. But to me, this^^^ is not a reflection of that.

(And it beats "Disneyland Mommy - who always has fun things to do! Not homework or dental appointments").

If YOU can get & use the tickets any time - why would she want to use her week for something she does not enjoy much, and or rely on you for the tickets?

So the girls are not missing anything by going another time, right?

I don't know which park you are referring to but in CA, the best holiday to go was Halloween. Man, I'd go with them and enjoy the he11 out of it.

For them, mostly but yeah, for some inner satisfaction for the petty parts of me...

Just a thought.


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