Hearing the Fat Lady Sing

[ForGump]

Anyhow, I'm sensitive about what we are "allowed" to want.

FG is it really about weight, per se, or whether we are attracted to the person? Please tell me It's not selfish of us to want to feel basic attraction to them.

I'm asking.

"Allowed" to want? By whom?

Of course there needs to be a healthy amount of physical attraction. And it's not selfish... we are humans, not robots.

I feel like I don't understand what you're trying to say....