MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[peacetoday]

Hi

Your H is a typical MLCer --You read about the other stories and see how drastically they all change so quickly
and they are Unreachable for sure and for a long time

Treat the D as you would a job or business deal
do only what is best for you
He is going to move forward in his MLCer way no matter what you do and the MLCer wants as much as they can get
the OW likes to spend the money and your H is no longer the same..like an alien
he cares about nothing but him

You are exactly right in your posts--do what is best for you in every area
let your brother represent you and get other bids
it may infuriate your H -and usually the D does cause some extra conflict
but
in the end you will be grateful you stood up for yourself because H can't right now-