Hi Mark A potential interaction with the OM must be excruciating, can't begin to understand what you go through there.
Still hoping I don't have to finally meet the OM next week (and possibly his own W) as my W asked me last week if I fancied going to her work Hallowe'en party. Still can't believe she had the gall to ask. I hope she doesn't ask again but if that is indeed the case I will of course reply with something along the lines of "hmm, interesting question, would a certain person be going?....." If for some bizarre reason she asks why did I ask that I will have to say that I can't believe she even asked me in the first place!
Gawd this sitch is so ***** up!
Me 55, W 50 D 8 M 20 T 27 MIL w/ us BD 01/02/17 workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA) OM senior manager, long term W, child 14 now: limbo (my choice)
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