Reading the exchange I picked up on what job said. She is terrified of being judged/rejected probably more so from the girls than from you but I am thinking its death by firing squad or hanging ... neither sounds fun. The fact she is putting the weight of meeting you on her therapist should tell everyone she is not ready, but the good news is she seems to be atleast sorting through some issues, although I am guessing in her head if Irish did this or Irish did that she would not be in this sitch so yeah ... I would hold fast till the Blame Game stops and she actually starts to look inward for solutions.
On the journey goes my friend ... hand in there if anything its interesting and for her sake I hope she figures it all out vs. missing out on what sounds like an amazing chance to be a part of 2 amazing girls lives.
