Originally Posted By: holding
This mind reading just isn't healthy for me.


YES! Diagnosing our WAS' mental conditions is a favorite past time for the LBS.

It's an effort to explain behaviors that we don't understand. If we can attribute it to some illness then we can process it.

People say and do things all the time for no reason, or for a temporary reason. People can feel very passionate about something one day, and the next day have no strong feelings about it.

State of mind is temporary and fleeting, but as humans we like to put a label on things and believe that "it is always that way".

Focus on Holding and chasing flight attendants, STBX will do what she will do.

She may have been messaging you because she wants to control where you are and what you are doing, or she may have been truly worried about you. In the end, the facts of the matter are that she tried to reach you. You can avoid that in the future by telling her you're at a movie, or if you want to be vague, say you're somewhere that you can't use your phone and then her expectations are set.

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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015