MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[LAJar]

Hi leah and Own,

Thank you for coming to my thread and for your support. leah, I will read up on your thread next.

SO hard, is plainly & simply true. This is not my H. I don't know where he's went. The one thing my dad told me when this all happened is that he thought my H always had my back. Not only does he not have my back, but he is doing things to harm me. Yes, he's gone for days, weeks without contacting me, only to text to see how D is moving along. Again, he filed 10 days after leaving and 3 months later, still no service. Yet, he's all about getting me to negotiate w/ him. He has an agenda that is lacking and one that I'm not going to help him achieve. My agenda is to sell my house, move to my parents temporarily, then work on figuring out where my next home will be. I will do what I need to do once I'm served but nothing more until then. Of course once I meet with my L, I will begin to get my financials in order, but I will explain to her that is only in preparation for what is to come. I need her to understand, I am not in favor of D at this time & because of that I will not help move it forward.

Thank you for your words of encouragement. It is truly comforting to come here and have responses from others that know exactly how you feel. As someone still quite new to this forum, I am ever so grateful.