It's tough. My DB coach says to make them attainable in 2 weeks, and if they aren't, redo them.

I have had "H will say ILY" or "H will hold my hand" for months now. That's why I moved them over to long term goals. They just aren't as attainable as I had previously thought.

Good luck, keep us posted.


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