Detachment is a process, not really a switch you flip. You *start* detaching, but being fully detached, from what I've been told, can take a year or more. I don't think that's a bad thing - it's just the way it is.
What you're feeling is normal. I've been through all that. Wishing this were all a dream you could wake up from - yeah, that's a familiar feeling. Feeling for you, man.
If you don't mind my asking, has your experience from your previous divorce been helpful in any way to get through this? Do you ever recognize things you went through before and find it somewhat comforting to know you survived the first time? I tell myself the rest of my life will be a cakewalk after I get through this hell.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
