Hey Wood. Yes, Betsey is right you do need action oriented goals. To get mine, I restate the babysteps I want to see from H. Then I come up with the actions I will take to get them.
Sounds to me like she invited you to coffee, that's a babystep (sort of) you were looking for. Not dinner, but good anyway. Sounds like what you are doing is working. And that's what's important, nothing else. That what you are doing for you and your sitch works for you. Not the cookie cutter approach the book gives you. Instead, use the book as an outline and darn good source of researched info. Then tailor it to you.
