Wild ride and now trapped in the Bermuda Triangle

[dmoy]

Just keep POSTING and one other bit of advice from Wonka
that I totally agree with.

Get DR/DB book. Keep this to yourself. DO NOT share this book or this site at all with your spouse. It is your playbook and not to be shared with the "opposing" team.

It is important to clear the search/browsing history from your computer on a daily basis to prevent the possibility for your WAS to stumble on the DB site and discover your posts here on DB. Erasing the search history will protect your posts and you as well.

We have seen too many Marriages blow up in pieces after the WAS discovers the DB site or DR book. Why is that? It is because the WAS thinks, erroneously I might add, that you are "manipulating" them back into the M.

Keep the DR book and DB site very close to your vest.

No kidding. Haha. I've been trying to do this, but she may have accidentally seen it on Sunday when she was here dealing with the lice incident (earlier post).

Since ending most communication last Wednesday she's actually called me on the phone rather than text me at least 8 times since Saturday. We used to talk a lot on the phone when we were first dating. Not sure the significance at this point but just going to continue logging stuff in my journal.