Thanks Betsey, goals for me, I will retool them I think to involve me more, I see your point to try and draw her near to me, maybe I have trying that for too long. Concentrate on me, sounds like a great idea.
Any tidbits on how these should look, or what they should incorporate, because honnestly right now I feel good for me. I feel confident and strong all of a sudden, almost as if a weight had been lifted off my shoulders lately. I don;t know where this feeling came from, but today I feel awesome.
I am going to think long and hard about some more goals, you two are helping me tremendously with these and I appreciate it very much. Should these goals be personal acheivements I strive for? Or should they be direct things I know I can accomplish soon without much trying. I am a little confused on these goals I should set, as Rotty's were more driven towards H then herself, just need a little guidance I guess.