Jan. 2017 was the first sign of there being a problem, she outright came out and said "I do not like you anymore" I asked why and she said because you made fun of me when I was stiiring the cake mix. I said oh wow I didnt realize that I had said something wrong and it will never happen again.

She said that she wants to take me up on my offer to trade her in for two twenty year olds...this was a joke from 20 years ago... I found it to be strange.

She also said that the reason she wants to leave is because I once said 20 years ago that it was "Cheaper to Keep Her" the joke from many years ago.

So anyway I did notice that she was starting to dress much younger and started to wear makeup and I asked her about and got the typical I am just dressing up for work response. She was starting to get colder towards me but our sex life was great 3-4 times a week.

In Febuary she tells me that her and 8 people from work are going on a vacation, I asked who was going and she was very vague but nothing was out of the ordinary so I thought maybe she just need some time away. I was not happy about it at all...

Leading up to the vacation things were still getting cold but sex life was still great, thats why I didnt think there was a problem. Finally 2 days before her vacation I asked her do you want to get divorced and she said NO. I said why so cold and her reply was just she was tired from work.

More to come.... plenty more...


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20