I'm glad that Rott was here to lend a helping hand. I'm liking your new independent attitude.
But what you listed as goals I really see as steps that what you're doing is drawing her closer to you. Goals are YOU oriented. So I would suggest reworking the goals and listing those steps that will help you see if what you're doing is working.
Make sense?
Keep up the great job!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."