bhappy, sounds like there are a lot of holes to fill. There's a 3-1/2 month gap there between "she wants to get back together" and "I told her to go ahead with D", seems like a lot must have happened in it. But I will say this, it's not unusual for a WAS to throw a "false recon" out there at some point. I think it's their way of "deciding" that they really are done. That was what crossed my mind as I was reading that earlier post.
I can certainly understand the emotional roller coaster, we've all gotten a ride on that nasty rickety thing filled with all its twists and turns and dips and dives. Hang in there and post when you can!