So due to mother insistence I looked at the phone records for the month. Mom basically said I was soft for giving W a ride last week. And what I found is that my W spends her entire day most texting with several men and calling a couple. Not really sure if she has time to visit with them. But clearly she is relishing in the attention. Clearly these guys are for fun, but are unwilling to assist with a flat tire.
OM was nowhere to be found on there. Noticed awhile back that he wasn't responding to text, so he may have finally kicked her to the curb or using secret messenger. No concern of mine at this point, but just an observation. And apparently potential OM has moves up to the top of the list for text and calls. Nice to know that he stepped up his scavenger behavior when W moved out.
The thing that actually bothered me was the fact that there were times when W had excuses not to pick up S14, drop anything off for him or I had to change my plans for her. W used excuses for being too tired, but from what I can tell she was busy texting or talking on the phone when she was supposed to be sleeping. Basically putting our son aside just for attention from strangers.
So this did prove my mother's point to let her go to these men for assistance on anything that doesn't involve S14. And apparently even in matters involving our child she can't be trusted. Have no intentions on calling her out. But I am real tempted to to send a text next time she wants something. And it will go like this:
If you need anything in regards to S14 or business, then I will not hesitate to assist you. But for anything else please refer the other men you contact on a regular basis. If these men are incapable of being more for you than the purpose for "fun and a good time", then you may want to reevaluate the type of people in your life. My time is valuable and will not be used for someone trying to take advantage.
