Well, she does need a professional counselor. Although, she might get one that is not pro M. Has she considered seeing a doctor for AD's and maybe sleeping meds?
Has she told you she wants the M to be better or even if she wants to save it? Has she indicated remorse for the destruction her affair has caused her loved one?
I don't mean just shedding a few tears, but has she made it clear to you that she is sorry for betraying you and that she through with OM? Perhaps I misunderstood, but I thought you told her to end it or get out. And.....then you start getting these mixed signals?
maybe I'm confusing joejoe's thread with someone else, but If not, then I recall history of anger on his part, and a ton of criticism and shaming his wife in front of others. She said he "broke her" and to his credit, joejoe is doing some brave work on himself.
Not defending her, to be clear. But joe, isn't she still on the fence about working on your marriage?
Also, I echo the need for her to see an MD.
As for Privacy issues - she can go off post if you are uncomfortable with on post help. They will not link her civilian med records to your military ones.
Does she agree to see someone?
You posted on GW's thread that she told you she resented you and no longer respected you. At what point did she say this? And, has she said what you would need to do to change it? I ask b\c I believe it was yesterday I wrote somewhere that I have yet to see a WW be that clear with her H about the root problem. So, I am interested in knowing more.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
