This is the most difficult thing i have ever experienced, over everything else. I think im doing it right, and its wrong. I cant seem to get a balance,
GW,
Don't beat yourself up, you are right this is probably the toughest thing you have ever faced. DBing is very counter intuitive that's why what you think is right is really wrong. Just remember that you can not nice your way back with her.
Stay confident and strong my friend. I promise you it gets better.