holding, Even though I haven't posted or put my two cents in other threads I have been reading including your sitch. So I am very familiar with what went on with your W and her desire to buy a home so I was ready for this from my W. Honestly I have no problem with her getting her own place but for her to use our shared money to do this absolutely not! That's why I attempted to explain to her that until the lawyers figure out the money I will not give her permission to put an offer on a home, much like you!
Originally Posted By: LH19
Originally Posted By: dusty70
My goal, I no longer am interested in saving my marriage.
I know you may feel that way today, but it doesn't mean you will feel that way in the future.
Don't burn any unnecessary bridges.
LH..... I understand this! Believe me I do, I have done just about everything I needed to do to save my marriage, some wrong, some right. I have bettered myself for myself to set me up for my new future, but with the level of betrayal from my W it makes it real tough to even consider being with her, can this change, maybe, we'll see. Our marriage will be over before the end of the year. I am doing my best to not burn any bridges, this is not a pattern of us, we usually can keep it nice towards each other.
