I do have some goals written down and here they are...

Short term goals: 1) To rid myself of the anger I have which is internal. 2)Being the best dad I can for our daughter, in that I mean spending QT with her, listening to everything she has to say, playing whatever it may be with her. 3) Be more active physically. 4) Be moreloving and supporting of my wife, but not pursuing.

Long Term Goals: 1) To have my wife back by November 2) WOrk on my issues she had with me 3) Get a new outlook on life, wether it be with or without her, as long as know I've tried my best.

I have another question, should I still wear my wedding band on the left hand. My wife does not wear hers at all, I have gone from wearing it on the right hand back to the left when she is in my presence. Should I keep on doing that, or simply take it off?

Woody